Somewhere along the line, an unfortunate number of men have developed the concern that bringing gadgetry into the bedroom means they’re sexually deficient in some way. Don't be one of them! The majority of women need clitoral stimulation (rather than only penetration) in order to orgasm—so unless you have a go-go gadget penis, penetrative sex alone isn’t going to get a woman off (though, yes, she still likes it). Adding a vibrator to the mix proves you know how the female body works, and that you care about how much she enjoys the festivities. It also lets her know you're sexually adventurous. These are all very attractive qualities in a sex-haver.

The corollary to men avoiding sex toys is that penises are majorly underserved when it comes to selection. For that reason, most of these models have clitorises in mind. On the plus side, there's a wide variety—from vibrators that double as high-end jewelry to couples' toys to prostate pleasurers, we've found tested-and-proven picks for giving everyone involved the gift of orgasm.